Lauren LaRusso, LPC, LMHC on Instagram: "Watch until the end. You’ll see why affair recovery is so difficult: because of the competing needs of each spouse. The betrayed spouse feels that they can’t react to the affair because they’re being told that their feelings are making a bad situation worse. The unfaithful spouse wonders with every outburst or setback if they will ever be able to recover and is losing hope and patience that things will ever feel good again. The betrayed needs to process,